If you want to use the simulator seriously, you have no choice but to learn things. Tutorials are indispensable to learn functions. It takes some time but then it is worth it.
Oh, I absolute do want to learn! I'm really curious about the general aircraft operation procedures and having the feeling of being in a "real" cockpit. All I'm asking is if there is a more approachable way than watching YouTube videos and reading the fs4 tutorial pages and then trying to memorize everything and attempting it in VR....over and over again.
For checklists in VR I use "Desktop+". It can mirror desktop applications into VR, so I have a browser with my checklists and maps as a kneeboard inside my VR cockpit.
But I am still hoping for an integrated solution like in other simulators.
Any kind of real ingame tutorial ("now click here, now click there") would be amazing. I'll give Desktop+ a go for sure.